Kasidie Review

Kasidie is a dating site for singles and couples who are looking to inject more excitement into their sex lives. It can be used to find threesomes, orgies, sex parties, and all kinds of kink stuff, and it’s often recommended as one of the best apps of its kind. 

It’s a premium dating app, which means you will need to upgrade your account to use most of its features. Features include club listings and the ability to arrange travel plans with other members, and the site is known for being reliable, user-friendly, and safe. 

As swingers ourselves, my partner and I decided to try Kasidie out. We wanted to see how usable it was, how easy it was to meet other swingers, and how it compares with other apps of this type. 

In this Kasidie review, you can learn all about what we found out. We’ll be taking a look at Kasidie’s signup process, its design, its profile quality, and pricing, as well as how it matches up against its closest competitors. 

Ready to see if this is the right swingers app for you? Let’s make a start. 

Our Kasidie Review

Pros of Kasidie

  • Very affordable 
  • Active user base
  • People genuinely want to meet and have fun

Cons of Kasidie

  • Not as popular as other swingers apps

Kasidie Member Structure 

Kasidie Member Structure

Kasidie isn’t as popular as some rival swingers apps, and as such, it can’t boast as many members. At the time of writing, its user base is under one million, with a greater percentage of those living in the U.S. 

There are around 50,000 active users each week and most members who sign up are couples. However, there are also singles on here, although female members outweigh male members. 

Age-wise, Kasidie is a lot like other swingers apps in that most of its members are aged between 25 and 45. There are some 50+ members on here, as well as some who are aged as young as 18, however. 

And while there is a fair number of active users on the site, Kasidie is aimed at serious swingers who want to get off the app as soon as possible and meet people in real life. As such, the chat rooms aren’t as lively as they are at similar sites and apps. 

However, what we’d also point out is that, while the app is primarily used by couples, there are lots of singles on here, too. Many are keen on meeting up with couples, with lots of them interested in voyeurism and exhibitionism. 

Signing Up On Kasidie 

Signing Up On Kasidie

The Kasidie signup process looks more daunting than it is. 

How so? 

Well, Kasidie asks you to answer around 40 questions related to your sexual preferences and desires. The good news, however, is that the questionnaire isn’t mandatory and can be skipped. That said, my partner and I found that the best thing to do was answer the questions as this really will help you find what you’re looking for faster once your profile is up and running. 

Kasidie lets you register as a single individual or as a couple, and you must upload at least one picture. You must also add your age and current location (city). 

And in case anyone is wondering – no, you don’t need to verify your email address. This, of course, means there will be fake profiles on the site. 

All in all, the signup process is easy and swift, although you might have to wait a few minutes for your photo to be verified. 

Making Contact 

Once your account is live, you’re free to then search for other members/swingers. Yep, the search function is completely free to use but if you want to contact someone, you will need to upgrade your account.

This is normal on most dating sites these days, with the general exception being swipe apps like Tinder. 

It’s really easy to send messages, too. Once you’ve found someone you like the look of, you can click on their profile for a closer look, and then you just need to tape the animated chat bubble icon. 

That said, this icon only appears if they’re online and are using instant messenger. If they aren’t, you can still message them but you may be waiting longer for a response.

Also, as well as sending private messages, you can also contact people via the forums and chatrooms. As mentioned earlier, though, both of these aren’t heavily populated, with most users avoiding them. 

Kasidie Profile Quality 

When it comes to profile quality, Kasidie is hit and miss. Because you don’t have to verify your email address or log in via Facebook, there will be fake profiles on the site. However, many members are aware of this and choose to get themselves a “Certified Member” badge. This lets everyone know that they’re real and genuine, but because it’s entirely voluntary not everyone has one. 

As well as authenticating your profile, a Certified Member badge also nets you more perks, including party invitations. In general, though, it just means more people will contact you. 

Other than that, couple profiles are more detailed than single profiles, simply because they have separate sections for “His Likes” and “Her Likes.” Moreover, those who have taken the time to answer the questionnaire upon signup will naturally have more information in their profile than those who chose not to. 

Do most members answer the questionnaire? 

From our experience – yes. We’d say that 75% of profiles on Kasidie are highly detailed and give you great insights into the couple’s sexual preferences, desires, and kinks. This then helps you make a better decision regarding whether or not to contact them. You can also check out their bios, their personality traits, and interests, but you can only see their “private text” if you’re a paying member. 

All profiles, meanwhile, contain at least one photo. 

Kasidie Real Life Review

We are a new swinger couple from the west coast. We tried SwingLifeStyle but there were not a lot of swingers, swinging parties, and events. But, we found out that for our region Kasidie was a far better option. We gave it a shot and our experience so far has been amazingly good. There are so many couples and events going on which makes it the best option for us.

Design and Usability 

Kasidie Design and Usability

Design-wise, Kasidie is pretty basic and functional in that everything is neatly arranged and accessible at the top of your homepage.

It shouldn’t be too hard to find your way around the site, but we did find that once we’d moved away from the homepage, getting back to the search area was a bit of a challenge at first. This is because the site is a tad cluttered, especially the menu bars at the top. 

If we have a complaint, however, it’s that the aesthetic is a tad dated and could do with an update.

Other than that, it’s hard to find fault with the way Kasidie looks or its user experience. People are here simply to chat, get naughty, and meet up. 

Kasidie App

Kasidie App version

Kasidie has an IOS and Android app that’s available from the app store, and which you can download straight to your mobile device. It’s simple enough to use and the layout looks pretty much like the desktop version of the site. The color scheme is the same, but everything has been adapted to fit smaller screen size. 

Load time is good too, you get all the same features, and you can also switch notifications on whenever someone has messaged you. 

Would you recommend the app over the desktop version of the site? It depends on what you’re more comfortable with. The Kasidie app is great for when you’re on the move, and especially comes in handy for the Travel feature, but we were more comfortable with the desktop version. 

Costs and Prices 

kasidie elite membership features

Kasidie is a premium dating app, but there are still things you can do for free: 

  • Use the search function 
  • Browse events and parties 
  • Check out the club listings, and add some of your own
  • Browse the forums 

However, as a paying member you get access to the special features (see below), plus you can also: 

  • Send and receive messages 
  • Participate in the chat rooms
  • View profiles 
  • Join forums 

How much does Kasidie cost? 

  • 1 month – $19.95 per month 
  • 3 months – $15 per month 
  • 6 months – $15 per month 
  • 12 months – $21.66 per month ($129.95 for the whole year)

Is Kasidie Expensive? 

To answer this question, we thought the best thing to do would be to compare Kasidie with its closest rivals:

  • SwingLifestyle
  • Swingers Date Club

As we’ve seen Kasidie costs $19.95 for one month’s subscription. SwingLifestyle, on the other hand, costs around $15 for one month, while Swingers Date Club costs $19. If you plan to sign up for a month, Kasidie works out at a decent deal. 

However, it’s when you upgrade and lock yourself into a 3, 6, or 12-month package that Kasidie proves to be value for money. For example, Kasidie costs just $5 per month for 3 months worth of usage. SwingLifestyle will set you back $10 per month for the same amount of time, and Swingers Date Club will cost you $10 per month. 

Compared to its competitors, Kasidie is priced higher which is a tad disappointing. But it all comes down to how much you can afford, and whether you consider an extra $5 per month a big deal or not. 

Overall, though, Kasidie’s pricing is average in the dating app world. 

Special Features 

Like all the best dating app, Kasidie has a few special features that help to set it apart from its competitors:


kasidie Travel

All the best swingers sites have a “Travel” feature and Kasidie is no different. How does it work? Essentially, it lets you post your travel plans and update other swingers about what you (and your partner) are planning and getting up to, and where you’re going. You can also check other people’s plans too and arrange to meet. 

This feature is exclusive to premium members. 

Chat Rooms

The chat rooms on Kasidie are places to meet, flirt, and get naughty with fellow swingers. However, while they’re free to use, your profile needs to be certified first. This means either uploading a picture of you and your partner and allowing one of the Kasidie team to verify it, or getting someone from a swingers club who you’ve met in real life to verify it for you. 


kasidie eXXXtra

This naughty feature lets you purchase sex toys and all kinds of other kinky products. These include clothes, but it also extends to filthy podcasts and even DJs and photographers. It works kind of like an online sex shop where people can advertise their products and services.

This feature is open to both premium and free members.

Club Listings 

Kasidie lets clubs post their sex parties, including dates, times, and locations. It’s a useful feature but one that is typical of most swingers apps. It’s easy to use, however, with Kasidie sorting the listings according to location. 

What Are The Better Options?

If you’re not entirely sure whether or not Kasidie is the right app for you, the good news is that you’ve got a few options. In this section, we’re going to take a look at Kasidie’s two main competitors.

  • SwingLifestyle 

SwingLifestyle is also used by both singles and couples who are looking for threesomes, orgies, sex parties, and more. As such, it caters to pretty much the same demographic as Kasidie. 

However, there are key differences. SwingLifestyle is older than Kasidie and therefore much more established. In fact, it’s been around since 2001. It’s used by over 16,000,000 people around the world, weekly activity is high and most users are in the 25 – 45 age range. 

Unlike Kasidie, you don’t have to upload a photo, and you can’t log in via Facebook. Free members can receive messages but can’t send them, but a chatroom can be used by both free and paying members. If you want to send messages and use special features, such as video chats and forums, you need to upgrade.

On the whole SwingLifestyle looks basic and a bit dated but the site is usable, there are far more members than there are on Kasidie, and the profiles are often very detailed, and the people are very friendly and open to chatting and meeting up. 

For more info: SwingLifestyle review

  • Swingers Date Club

Like SwingLifestyle, Swingers Date Club is one of the most established swingers sites around. It was launched over 20 years ago and currently boasts 3,000,000 members worldwide. This puts it in the middle between Kasidie and SwingLifestyle when it comes to the user base. 

And while you can only send messages as a premium member, Swingers Date Club offers a 7-day free trial to new members. 

The site has more going on than Kasidie and will take some time to get used to. But it’s mostly easy to navigate and comes with more features. These include blogs, contests, speed dating events, as well as the chance to watch videos created by other users. 

The extra features come at a price, however, and Swingers Date Club is more expensive than Kasidie. On the whole, though, it’s a premium swingers app aimed at those who want to fully immerse themselves in the world of swinging. 

For more info: Swingers Date Club review

Editor’s Review 

Overall, my partner and I had a good experience with Kasidie. We flirted with other couples (and some singles), we met up with a few and got invited to local sex parties. Kasidie isn’t used by as many people as, say, SwingLifestyle, but it’s much more affordable, the members are open to meeting up, and we think it’s a solid swinger’s app for anyone who wants to expand their sexual relationships.